8th place: A high school girl’s life after transgender students join her sport

By Kelsey Bolar | The Daily Signal

When two high school athletes who were born male but identify as female took first and second place at Connecticut’s girls indoor track championship this year, it wasn’t just a local news story.

To some, it was a story of triumph and courage. The winner, a junior from Bloomfield High School, set a girls state indoor record of 6.95 seconds in the 55-meter dash, and went on to win the New England titles in both the 55-meter dash and the 300-meter dash.

To others, it was a story of shock and disappointment: Is this the end of women’s sports?

To Selina Soule, a 16-year-old runner from Glastonbury, it was personal.

A junior, Selina missed qualifying for the 55-meter in the New England regionals by two spots. Two spots, she said, that were taken by biological boys.

Had the boys who identify as girls not been allowed to compete, Selina would have placed sixth, qualifying to run the 55 in front of college coaches at the New England regionals.

Instead, she placed eighth, watching the 55 from the sidelines after qualifying in only the long jump, an event in which the transgender athletes didn’t compete.

“It’s very frustrating and heartbreaking when us girls are at the start of the race and we already know that these athletes are going to come out and win no matter how hard you try,” Selina told The Daily Signal. “They took away the spots of deserving girls, athletes … me being included.”

While the debate over transgender athletes and fairness is complex, the situation in Connecticut has brought forth another complicating layer: Plenty of parents and high school girls appear to object to the participation of biological boys in girls sports, but fearing public bullying and backlash, they’re not speaking out.

Publicly, at least.

The stakes of remaining silent are high: Policies are being formed in real time at the local, state, and federal levels regarding transgender individuals, student athletes, and sports.

Most prominently, on March 13, House Speaker Nancy Pelosi introduced HR 5, the Equality Act, a bill that would add “sexual orientation” and “gender identity” as protected classes under federal civil rights law.

The legislation would create a civil right for male athletes to self-identify as females at any time, critics say, without any evidence of physical changes to their bodies.

A Voice for the Voiceless

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Selina Soule, a 16-year-old runner from Glastonbury, Connecticut, shares what it’s like being forced to compete against biological boys.

When the Connecticut Interscholastic Athletic Conference, or CIAC, said biological boys who identify as girls can compete as girls in sports, most track athletes remained mum.

Connecticut is one of 17 states that allow transgender high school athletes to compete without restrictions, according to Transathlete.com, a website that tracks state policies in high school sports across the country.

Encouraged by her mother, Bianca Stanescu, who has been in the forefront in challenging the state policy, Selina is one of the few students, if not the only one, giving a voice to countless others who appear to feel the same way.

“Everyone is afraid of retaliation from the media, from the kids around their school, from other athletes, coaches, schools, administrators,” Selina explained. “They don’t want to drag attention to themselves, and they don’t want to be seen as a target for potential bullying and threats.”

In a visit to the Nutmeg State, The Daily Signal spoke with four other track athletes from two high schools in Connecticut. Echoing Selina’s sentiments, they asked to remain anonymous.

“I think it’s a very important thing for people to really understand where we’re coming from, instead of just immediately going to, ‘We’re transphobic,’” one said. “Just the way that our society is built, it snaps on people so quickly.”

“We live in such a cruel world, and society is just so hard to figure out sometimes,” another girl told The Daily Signal. “You never know what the reaction is going to be. It’s so hard because you want your voice to be heard … but, how can you know what to say that will affect things positively, instead of people twisting what you’re saying and turning it against you?”

‘An Equality Issue’

The girls’ parents, too, expressed a high level of concern for protecting their daughters’ identities, not even wanting to identify them by high school.

Connecticut is made up of small towns, the parents explained, and given the relatively small number of athletes affected, people can connect the dots.

“There’s really nothing else you can do except get super frustrated and roll your eyes,” the first girl said, “because it’s really hard to even come out and talk in public just because of the way with the far left, and how just immediately you’ll just be shut down.”

“It’s not like we’re saying that we don’t like transgender people,” she added. “It’s just an equality issue where these girls are trying their absolute hardest to try and get those good things on their college resumes, and then it just gets completely taken away from them because there’s a biological male racing against them.”

The athletes say they don’t fear only being bullied or portrayed as a bigot. They also hope to attend college, and are afraid their politically incorrect views could hurt their prospects.

“I personally want a future in athletics in college,” a third girl told The Daily Signal, “but I feel like if there’s a coach that disagrees with my personal opinion, or a board that disagrees with it, then they’ll already have a predisposition with me and then it’ll affect maybe playing time or my ability to get into that college.”

“We have college down the road—I’m scared that that could get impacted,” a fourth girl said. “Sometimes the coaches will just like look at the lists … and if you’re not No. 1 then they won’t choose you.”

“I have heard opinions where coaches are just going to look at your times, and that they don’t really care where you place,” the first girl added. “But college coaches are going to these bigger meets, and when they don’t see you there, they’re not necessarily focusing on you. They’re focusing on the people that are there.”

“It kept Selina from getting to New Englands, where she had the opportunity to be running in front of college coaches, which is just unfair,” she added.

Uncomfortable Opinions

The athletes’ hesitation to speak out publicly begs the question:

How did society get to the point where high school girls now fear their uncomfortable opinions could prevent them from being admitted to the very institutions where uncomfortable opinions are supposed to be explored?

Whatever the answer, few could blame them, given the vitriol on display in today’s public square.

Business Insider removed a writer’s article defending the casting of Scarlett Johansson to play a transgender man in an upcoming film, for example. The publication said the article violated its “editorial standards,” and the writer later quit.

Authorities in Canada allegedly threatened to arrest a father if he refers to his biological daughter as a female in private or in public because she identifies as a boy.

And in schools, The Daily Signal has documented multiple cases of biological girls being forced to share locker rooms or bathrooms with boys, despite their safety concerns and discomfort.

But again and again, those on the “wrong side” of this conversation are too afraid to speak out.

‘Door Is Open for Any Other Sport’

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A junior in high school, Selina Soule is asking for fairness to be returned to her sport.

Selina’s mother, Stanescu, told The Daily Signal that she has done “everything that I thought would be possible to help this and just open a conversation” about what’s happened in Connecticut and what could happen should Congress pass the Equality Act.

“The doors have been shut over and over again,” Stanescu said. “People are afraid to speak.”

In addition to potentially instating a nationwide bathroom requirement, health care mandate, and a “preferred pronoun” law based on gender identity, the Equality Act would enshrine in federal law the right of biological boys to compete as girls in all sports.

If the measure passes, Stanescu warned, “women will be completely eradicated from sports.”

What’s happening in Connecticut, she added, will happen across the country—and not just in track and field.

“Yes, it has been affecting track and field in Connecticut, but the door is open there for any sport, and that is something that could become also a safety issue,” Stanescu said. “It’s taking away the opportunity to win for the girls, but in sports that have physical contact, [it] could become a serious safety issue.”

“It could be potentially very dangerous if you have a transgender female that’s competing in basketball, soccer, lacrosse, field hockey because they are so physically superior to females,” her daughter Selina added.

Selina says all this while making clear she supports athletes “being true to themselves.”

“I have friends in school who are transgender and I know when they are struggling to come out or deciding to come out, I was there supporting them,” she said. “And when they were freshly out, I was caring towards them. I was never rude or disrespectful.”

But the situation in sports has “nothing to do with their gender identity and how they feel,” Selina said. “It has to do with what is right and what is fair in athletics.”

Looking forward to her senior year, Selina said she hopes to run track in college. She referred to the long jump event as her “safe haven” where “the results were fair no matter what, because it was girls competing against girls.”

“But now, unfortunately,” she said with a disappointed look on her face, “one of those athletes has started to compete in long jump. So now none of my events are safe.”

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17 thoughts on “8th place: A high school girl’s life after transgender students join her sport

  1. Maybe the answer is to just play wise King Solomon and declare that it is and has always been unfair and sexist to even have gender-segregated sports…amateur, recreational, collegiate and professional. Forget Title 9 rules, from now on UVM will no longer have a men’s and women’s hockey team, there will just be the “hockey team”, and as with any varsity sports, only the best players will be picked. The result is the same, but without all the tiptoeing around words to avoid accusations of transphobia…sports will only be made up of men. Eventually, the Olympics will come face to face with this dilemma before people see what a problem has been created in the name of political correctness and left-wing lunacy.

  2. 40 different gender classes for sports competition is going to make things a bit difficult. They can work it out, times can be compared, distances thrown etc. Wonder how many more genders will be coming down the road? Interesting times.

  3. Transgenders, if these misfits want to compete then they should compete amongst themselves,
    it’s very unfair and downright disgusting to let Billy or Bob pretend he’s Betty or Barb and let
    them compete in Female Sports…….. so stand up against this nonsense!!

    But apparently, if they competed with someone in their own male gene pool, yup they’d get
    their butts kicked………………….

    Male & Female are what we are, anything else is delusional !!

  4. This is stupid , the worst part is that they were allowed to compete against the girls ………especially in field and track , male hips are a LOT different than female giving them an unfair advantage from the start , parents need to stand up for the rights of their BIOLOGICAL daughters !

  5. How about we just stop the PC crap and identify males and females by the chromosomes they were born with — which cannot be changed by drugs, operations or wishes, and stare calling people who think they are something else what they are — Mentally defective.

  6. Boys wearing skirts and competing against girls, courageous? Unbelievable. Should be ashamed of HIMSELF.

  7. It’s shameful. When I was a kid growing up in the Bronx the idea of competing with young women in sports was unheard of. What kind of pride can you have knowing you beat someone who is not able to to compete with you because of your sex and knowing you are naturally bigger, stronger and faster. Given time some young woman is going to get seriously injured trying to compete with someone who is not a biological female. I would rather see these women walk away from these sports venues that allow young men to compete with young women knowing they already have a distinct advantage before even entering a completion. Maybe young men who win in these unfair competitions should have an asterisk next to their names to denote their win came by beating a a female athlete.

    • Woman have already been seriously hurt by competing against transgenders. Back in 2013, Tamikka Brents, a mixed martial arts competitor, suffered a concussion and broken eye socket, after fighting, Fallon Fox, (a transgender). Tamikka said, “I’ve never felt so overpowered ever in my life.” I am not into this sport at all but I remember hearing about this a few years ago. This is just crazy. Males are stronger. Any idiot would agree.

  8. How did all the 40 different genders get started? Was it by consensus of a UN group
    of scientist? Talk about your denial of science, and total assault on the biological Female gender..
    Kinda like the whole warming hoax…

  9. I worked in San Francisco in 2007-2008. I was shocked at the people who were unconscious and on the sidewalks blocking people who were coming home from work. Nancy Pelosi represents San Francisco which is a world class city. However, I spent a summer in San Francisco in 1973. It was a city that care truly forgot. Her support for HR 5 reflects the values of a city that is self destructing and she wants to push that agenda on Vermont and the rest of the country. I was truly upset that young people are afraid to voice their opinions or objections to radical changes to our society. What is going on in our schools that would promote this fear.

  10. What’s wrong is right and what’s right is wrong. It’s a shameful way to win.

  11. OK invite the transgenders to the sport (s). Four human sexes will be acknowledged in their separate sports. Let females compete with females, males with males, trans with trans and the LBGT Each have their own private locker rooms. But then there’s horses, dogs and felines that will be a future issue, to each their own. Simple, but expensive.

    A muscular male (trans) won’t and can’t complete with females or any other specie.. Let them have their own Olympics or sport such as the Special Olympics in concept.

    This should make Liberals happy as all are being recognized for their sexuality. Problem solved, go with the flow. You can either pay the increased taxes to support or have VT in your rear view mirror.

    • “….or have VT in your rear view mirror.”

      The reality is this is the only reasonable solution.

  12. I feel really sorry for Salina and the rest of these girls that are losing out because they are allowing transgenders to compete as girls. It is not right, period. If the transgenders want to compete, then they should compete only against each other. Only then will you see attitudes change. Ridiculous..

    • Ditto.

      This is what the progressive agenda has created. This is exactly the reason many far left leaning states have become laughing stocks. States like VT have created the snowflake generation and now they have to sow what they (VT) reaps.

      It’s a race to the bottom of the toilet up there. Sad

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